Hi Tina- I’d like to connect with you for a brief conversation. I attended Victory from 1977-1983 (age 12-18). The Music Director (predator) left the church in 1983 and came back for a couple of years around 2008. My number is 585-XXX-XXXX. Thank you.

Yes, Pastor Joe Burress knew and his answer to the abuse of me and others was to get Donna Ashton to marry him. Until she figured out what he was., they are divorced and he is remarried with daughters.
I was petrified to talk about details but I was also asked “what did I do to have him do this” and “well, he didn’t rape you” and why where you alone with him”
all statements that blame the victim.
HE drove me home from church. He sexually assaulted me and I could not get away as he was much bigger than me and heavier than me.
I can only HOPE & PRAY this gets on tv so everyone can know!!!
Thank you for your kind words.

My heart breaks for you KJ! I knew your sisters (L & L) and one of your brothers (B) growing up at Victory. I always wondered about you and your other brother (J). I am so sorry for what you experienced at the hands of this man who calls himself a Christain, and for the lingering pain it must have caused in your life. I read your message last night and broke down in tears and prayer for you. Words seem too small. You deserved to be heard and believed and protected. Especially within the church. I don’t know if you ever told anyone about your experience at Victory or with this man. You were not the only one. His actions were being covered over. His ex-wife reached out to me back in September. I spoke to his current wife about these claims last month. What happened to you is not your fault. You did not deserve this. I am so very sorry you were not protected!